This doctor doesn’t believe there’s ‘donor fatigue’

By: Joy Rojas
PUBLISHED: Philippine daily Inquirer February 12, 2012

MANILA, Philippines—To raise much-needed funds for the Philippine General Hospital (PGH), Dr. Gregorio T. Alvior, president of the PGH Medical Foundation Inc., has mounted concerts, fashion shows and annual golf tournaments.

But it’s the biennial art auction that is the group’s biggest income-earner yet. Now on its fourth year, the art auction, which Alvior started in 2006, can net as much as P2 million. Good news, indeed, for a foundation that provides financial support to ensure quality medical care for 800,000 patients (90 percent of whom are indigent) admitted annually at PGH.

Alvior, who got the idea of art auction after watching one and seeing how the works got snapped up, attributes the event’s success to the growing appreciation of the visual arts, plus the fact that “people get to take home something from the money they donate.”

But the beneficiary has much to do with it, as well. With the Charity Patients Fund as the recipient of the auction on Feb. 16, 3 p.m. at Manila Polo Club, Alvior tapped over 40 of the biggest names in local art to contribute works for a good cause.

He also secured generous sponsorships from premier property developer DMCI, Coca-Cola, National Bookstore and Carmen’s Best Ice Cream.

“I had a feeling that because of PGH, it would be easy to convince them,” says Alvior, who asked the support of both the artists among his friends and the people he had just met. “Many were very willing.”

Lolita Escobar Mirpuri and Jennie A. Zamora co-chair the art auction, and Francisco D. Magsaysay, Noel Gonzales and Dr. Teresita Joy Evangelista are committee members.

Life after medicine

A graduate of the University of the Philippines Class 1962 and an obstetrician/gynecologist who had a lucrative practice in New York, Alvior dreamed of coming home to the Philippines and exploring a life after medicine.

“If you’re a practicing doctor, your life is just medicine,” he says when asked why he retired from such an illustrious career in 1995. “That’s one thing I think is unfortunate because there is so much else in life. If you limit yourself to one area, you’ll shortchange yourself.”

Still, when the offer to head the dormant PGH Medical Foundation Inc. was given him in 2003, Alvior was not exactly eager. “I was afraid it would destroy my retirement,” he recalls with a smile. But he also wanted a “useful” retirement, and when no one else it seemed could devote as much time as a retiree like him, he agreed.

For someone whose “experience” with charity work involved treating patients pro bono and sharing his knowledge with younger colleagues, Alvior proved a natural in his new and unexpected calling.

From near zero funds, the Foundation now not only has an office and staff, it has also financed projects in the PGH compound on Taft Ave., Manila.

The Ortoll Primary Reproductive Health Center, a birthing place for normal delivery inaugurated in December 2011, is its most recent. The Foundation has also renovated the bathrooms of the outpatient department, and helps in the purchase of PGH linens, gauzes, needles and sutures.

Yet, even with two annual charity events, written solicitations, and incessant follow-ups of potential donors, the Foundation struggles to cope with the hospital’s growing needs. “For every request we receive, we can do only half at the most,” says Alvior.

Surviving on the generosity of people also leaves him “wondering what the next year will bring.”

“I’m just doing what I think is the right thing to do,” says Alvior of his motivation. “Our obligation as human beings is to help do our share in making the world a better place. If you see something that is wrong, unjust and cruel, you can’t not do anything about it. Many people don’t want to get involved, but I think that’s a disservice. If there’s something you can do to help, no matter how small it is, do it!”

Searching for a successor

As in all his years in medicine, Alvior is aware that focusing too much on one thing “is not healthy. One cannot do it forever.” Training someone to succeed him is always on his mind. “Every day!” he exclaims with a hearty laugh.

Not that he’s ready to retire from this unsalaried profession just yet. Unfazed by rejection and so-called donor fatigue (“I hear it all the time, but I don’t believe it!” he insists), he lives for the occasional anonymous donor who drops by unannounced in his office to make a sizeable pledge, and the priceless feeling that makes his challenging job worthwhile.

“Most retirees tend to stay at home and depend on others to the point that they lose their self-worth. Something in them is diminished,” he reflects.

“But doing something that makes a difference, even if it isn’t recognized by everybody, buoys the spirit. It’s something you can appreciate even if you’re alone at night. I think that’s the reward,” he sums up his work with the Foundation.

“It’s not all giving. I’m getting something, too,” he says of his psychic reward.

Outside of the Foundation, the 74-year-old Alvior, who believes it is his charity work that keeps him sharp, has replaced daily games of tennis with swimming. (“Osteoarthritis on my knee,” he says, frowning.)

He also considers himself a weekend cook whose specialty is pasta. A man of simple pleasures, the doctor who dedicated 30 years of his life to medicine, now prefers to spend hours puttering around the garden.

“Now that,” he says emphatically, “is my joy.”

For more information on the art auction “For the Love of PGH,” and other foundation activities, visit the Philippine General Hospital Medical Foundation, Inc. at the G/F, Nurses Home, PGH Compound, Taft Avenue, Ermita, Manila; or call tel. 5362874, 5674272 or 5548400 extension 3061.

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PGHMFI Art Auction “For the Love of PGH” 2012 Catalogs

For the love of PGH 2012 Catalog

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PGH Charity Golf Tournament 2011

The PGHMFI’s annual golf tournament dubbed the PGH Director’s Cup ’11, originally scheduled for Nov. 7, 2011 at the Orchard Golf and Country Club has been moved to November 14, 2011 at the Ayala Greenfield Golf and Leisure Club, Brgy. Puting Lupa, Calamba City, Laguna

This tournament is for the benefit of the PGH Charity Patients Fund.

This year’s event is presented by PGH Medical Foundation, Inc., Coca- Cola Philippines and All Asian Countertrade, Inc. This is also sponsored by: Landbank of the Philippines, Unilever Philippines, Portion Fillers, San Miguel Corporation, Cluster Asia, Team Energy, Jupas Metal Crafts, Megaworld Corporation, Inc., Ricklee Enterprise, Ellite Ads Corp., Banco de Oro, Union Motors Corp., UnionBank, Sen Lito Lapid, Hon. Teodorico T. Haresco Jr. – ANG KASANGGA PARTYLIST, PNB, Pearl Manila Hotel, Pan Pacific Hotel and The Linden Suites. Our Media Partner are: Philippine Star, Business World and Manila Bulletin.

For More Details; please visit PGHMFI office located at the G/F Nurses’ Home, PGH Compound, Taft Avenue, Ermita Manila or call at (02) 536-2874, (02) 567-4272, (02) 554-8400 ext. 3061, you can also txt at 09228317470.

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PGHMFI NEWSLETTER July – September 2011








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PGHMFI Newsletter April 2011 – June 2011

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From Billy Abaño

In behalf of my family, I would like to extend my heartfelt thanks to the PGH Medical Foundation, Inc., which you ably led for sponsoring the whole abdomen CT Scan test (triple contrast) of my wide, Gladys Abaño, a PGH-CI patient afflicted with Acute Myelogenous Leukemia (AML) on April 21, 2011 at FMAB clininc, your generous assistance to my wife has brought us new hope as it helps her determine the next medical procedures needed for her treatment which eventually makes her partially well. This also resolves our financial quandary for the said test. Also I would like to thanks my wife’s attending physician. Dr. Leah Agreda, who referred us to your foundation. IF not her kind and genuine concern for my wife we would not have availed the free-of-charge test.

Again, thank you so much to both of you! May you keep selfless service and utmost care to the needy.

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Dept. of Out Patient Services – PGH Comfort Room

Before the Renovation

 

Newly Renovated

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TAN YAN KEE FOUNDATION, Inc. donates LINENS to PGH Charity Patients through the PGHMFI

(L-R) TYK Trustees Tan Hui Bin, Washington SyCip, Andres Narvasa, Cesar Virata, PGHMFI's Mme. Lolita Escobar-Mirpuri & Dr. Gregorio T. Alvior, Jr., TYKF Chairman and President Dr. Lucio Tan, Trustees Carmen Tan (wife of Dr. Tan), Marixi Prieto, Gabriel Singson, Christopher Nelson, Tan Eng Chan and Shirley Chua

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Happy Valentines…

It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone- but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

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Who you are makes a difference….

A teacher decided to honor each of her seniors in high school by telling them the difference they each made. She called each student to the front of the class, one at a time. First she told each of them how they had made a difference to her and the class.

Then she presented each of them with a blue ribbon imprinted with gold letters, which read, “Who I Am, Makes a Difference.”

Afterwards the teacher decided to do a class project to see what kind of impact recognition would have on a community. She gave each of the students three more ribbons and instructed them to go out and spread this acknowledgment ceremony. Then they were to follow up on the results, see who honored whom and report back to the class in about a week.

One of the boys in the class went to a junior executive in a nearby company and honored him for helping him with his career planning. He gave him a blue ribbon and put it on his shirt. Then he gave him two extra ribbons and said, “We’re doing a class project on recognition, and we’d like you to go out find somebody to honor, give them a blue ribbon, then give them the extra blue ribbon so they can acknowledge a third person to keep this acknowledgment ceremony going. Then please report back to me and tell me what happened.”

Later that day the junior executive went in to see his boss, who had been noted, by the way, as being kind of a grouchy fellow. He sat his boss down and he told him that he deeply admired him for being a creative genius.The boss seemed very surprised. The junior executive asked him if he would accept the gift of the blue ribbon and would he give him permission to put it on him. His surprised boss said, “Well, sure.” The junior executive took the blue ribbon and placed it right on his boss’s jacket above his heart. As he gave him the last extra ribbon, he said, “Would you do me a favor? Would you take this extra ribbon and pass it on by honoring somebody else? The young boy who first gave me the ribbons is doing a project in school and we want to keep this recognition ceremony going and find out how it affects people.”

That night the boss came home to his 14-year-old son and sat him down. He said, “The most incredible thing happened to me today. I was in my office and one of the junior executives came in and told me he admired me and gave me a blue ribbon for being a creative genius. Imagine. He thinks I’m a creative genius. Then he put this blue ribbon that says: “Who I Am, Makes a Difference” on my jacket above my heart. He gave me an extra ribbon and asked me to find somebody else to honor. As I was driving home tonight, I started thinking about whom I would honor with this ribbon and I thought about you. I want to honor you”.

“My days are really hectic and when I come home I don’t pay a lot of attention to you. Sometimes I scream at you for not getting good enough grades in school and for your bedroom being a mess, but somehow tonight, I just wanted to sit here and, well, just let you know that you do make a difference to me. Besides your mother, you are the most important person in my life. You’re a great kid and I love you!”

The startled boy started to sob and sob, and he couldn’t stop crying. His whole body shook. He looked up at his father and said through his tears, “Dad, earlier tonight I sat in my room and wrote a letter to you and Mom explaining why I had killed myself and asking you to forgive me. I was going to commit suicide tonight after you were asleep. I just didn’t think that you cared at all. The letter is upstairs. I don’t think I need it after all.” His father walked upstairs and found a heartfelt letter full of anguish and pain. The envelope was addressed, “Mom and Dad.”

The boss went back to work a changed man. He was no longer a grouch but made sure to let all his employees know that they made a difference. The junior executive helped several other young people with career planning and never forgot to let them know that they made a difference in his life…one being the boss’ son.

And the young boy and his classmates learned a valuable lesson. Who you are DOES make difference.

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